Definition of a Good Day

The definition of a good day is when:

-- one buddy tests negative for cancer. The anticipation of this test literally has been keeping me awake for a week.

-- another buddy gets a clean scan (for thyroid cancer) and gets to put the last several weeks behind him.

-- big, huge humungous work meeting goes well.

-- my kid's baseball team, who have had two really demoralizing defeats of late, steps it up and defeats The mighty Tigers, who were previously 10-0. Oh, and my kid steals home twice, makes two great plays (including the game winning catch) and gets the game ball -- something he has literally been dreaming about for weeks! He told me on the car rider home that tonight was the greatest night of his life. I told him it might be mine too. I'll confess to getting a little teary-eyed when the coach flipped him the game ball. For once, he gets to go to school the conquering hero.

-- And as I type these words, a bottle of 15-year old Balevenie catches my eye. Perfect topper to a real good day.

Listens and Reads

I recently got my hands on two highly anticipated albums (I won't say how): the new Eminen and the new Green Day. it's too early for detailed reviews, but thus far I am disappointed in the Eminem (sadly, as I love old Em)) and I think Green Day is good, bordering on epically good. I have a few more albums in the old ipod, but these are the two that I have anticipated most this year and I expect I'll be spending lots of time with both over the course of the next several weeks. Stay tuned for more.

In terms of reading, I am in the middle of Columbine and so far it's a fascinating read and deserving of all the critical accolades. I have been too busy to read the past several days but hope I am able to finish it off by the weekend. I think next up is going to the new Elmore Leonard (after Columbine I will be ready for something that's a bit lighter in spirit) which is also getting great reviews. I'm also considering the Talent Code as well, by Daniel Coyle which is more of a pop culture tome in the spirit of Gladwell.

Speaking of Gladwell, he has an absolutely must read article in the New Yorker, which I will link to later.

Lastly, I bought a new phone: the Nokia e71x. For $99, I am very impressed. It's a very sleek looking business device that does email well. And the form factor is pretty hard to beat. As you all know, I am addicted to gadget but that's not why I got this particular device. I still love my iphone - it's far more "good" versus "bad" - but until they introduce a model with a QUERTY keyboard, it doesn't pass muster for me from a business perspective.

A Day at the Beach

We had a terrific day yesterday and a belated happy Mother's Day to the Wife. I'm officially on record saying she is an amazing Wife and Mother. To celebrate the day, she and a few friends hiked down to Stinson Beach via the Dipsea Trail, which is a good five mile plus walk. Once there, we hung out for the day -- it must have been 80 degrees. Our good friend Mark and took the Little Boy surfing, which is was pretty cool. What was even cooler, as you will note, is that he actually stood up and surfed it in. Fairly impressive effort for the little fellow.

The Dead

I went to see The Dead (the band formerly known as the Grateful Dead) last night at the Shoreline Ampitheater in Mountain View, CA. It was surreal on so many levels. For starters, it was my first Dead show since about 1992 (I think). So much time has passed since then, but at some level, it was just like old times. The crowd energy level - I will get to the band in a minute - was awesome. I expected a Phish show with lots of younger, obnoxious folks, but this was definitely the genuine article. The other surreal aspect was how old the hippies (the genuine, 1960's artifact) have become. There were people there literally rocking out -- in their rockers. I guess I should have realized this but if you are a 60's era hippie -- you are pushing the front end of 70. And it's plain weird to see a 70 year old in head to head tie die smoking pot. But they were out there -- en massse, in fact.

And then there were the band. I think Warren Haynes (of Gov't Mule fame) is probably the finest guitarist alive today and he is seriously awesome -- he's essentially the only guitarist who could sit in Jerry's chair -- but I am sorry to say that he's no Jerry. And I'm not one of these old school Dead heads who's unaccepting of anything but Jerry -- but it is what it is. Makes me appreciate Jerry even more.

So, there was that. And frankly, I thought the band was a tad laconic; almost as if they have lost a half step. But when you get right down to it -- they are old guys. And they still played for three plus hours. And some of their songs had the old swagger.

So, in a nutshell, I am really glad I went. It was not only fun, but for one night it was a step back in time on a number of different levels for me. I think that the highlight for me was the Shoreline Amphitheater (located one block from the Google complex). That is by far one fo the coolest venues I have ever experienced and it has great acoustics to boot. I enjoyed it just as much, if not more so, than the Hollywood Bowl in LA.

Viva the Dead. I do think they will last forever in certain respects.

Post 500!

Today marks a nice double milestone: it's the 2nd anniversary of this blog and it's my 500th post.

Man. Never in a million years did I think I would see this through for two years and if I do say so myself, 500 posts over the course of two years is pretty consistent posting. So, yay me.

Actually, yay all of you guys.

While this blog doesn't have the biggest audience in the world, I could care less: it's a nice little community and without getting too maudlin and sappy, I really love -- and appreciate you all. Even you, Old Man. I've reconnected with old friends, made new friends and it has been an all-around awesome experience. In the event you haven't already surmised, this blog has been part therapy for me, part creative outlet and something even greater than all that that I find hard to put into words. I genuinely relish the time I spend posting and I always look forward to comments and interplay with you all.

I can't think of a particular favorite posting that comes to mind, but would love to hear if there are any memorable ones on your end. Without question, though, my favorite "activity" is our now annual "Howard Solomon Run for Thyroid Cancer" which will be entering its third year. Last year we had so many great contributions and it was super fun to post all of the pictures. I plan continue that event this year and I think the date will coincide with my (ludicrous) 50 mile run. (As a sidebar and on the topic of the running, I went for my first and second run since the Boston marathon yesterday and this am while in LA and I am astonished how shelled my legs still are. Anyway, time heals all wounds.

So with that, other great big THANK YOU for being part of this great community.

I look forward to many more years together.

Random Thoughts

The Wife made it home, both kids were alive and no worse for the wear -- mission accomplished. Truth be told, we actually had a terrific time, though I hasten to add that I was pretty happy to see the Mrs. when I got home tonight. The highlight of this little extravaganza occurred this morning when the Little GIrl had a pre-school meltdown concerning a ponytail gone awry. She didn't really understand that dad's can't do ponytails (or at least, to the same effect as their mothers).

So, that's that. Now I get to go to LA for a few days to work/decompress (though mostly work).

So what else is new? I am sitting here watching Yankees vs. Red Sox and am seriously bummed out. Freaking Yankees aren't showing much of anything, despite spending literally a hundred million dollars this offseason. I also think this new stadium might be a complete jinx. Regardless, it has the makings of a very long and depressing season, unless they can turn it around quickly.

Amazon is going to be announcing a new, longer Kindle this week. I think that has got to be a world record for pimping early adopters; mine isn't even two months old yet. I think that Amazon is the new Apple, in more than one respect. Speaking of the Kindle, I really do love it, though I probably would have gone for a bit more real estate (screen space). On the subject, I am currently reading Columbine, which is a riveting and borderline frightful read. It's received very positive reviews and reminds me to a certain extent of Mailer's Executioners Song. Thus far, highly recommended. I believe this is book seven of the year, so I am on pace to hit my goal fo 12 for the year.

Mr. Mom

So, for the first time I think ever, the Wife has left me alone with the two kids. She headed to Florida Friday morning to see our new niece. The way I am approaching this I have three simple objectives: keep 'em alive, keep 'em sheltered; keep 'em fed. I am pleased to report that it's Saturday night, and thus far I am three for three. So far, so good though tomorrow brings with it a new day and anything can go wrong.

The weather hasn't exactly accomodated, unfortunately; it poured all day. Rain in May is pretty rare in the Bay Area and I was at a bit of a loss as to what to do with them. We ended hanging out and lounging (to the extent that we are capable of doing that - the three of us are pretty amped I noticed) and had a good time. The fun continues tomorrow.

In other news, I signed up for two dumb events this past week: a century bike ride (this will be my first century in about a decade) and a -- get ready for it (and close your eyes Mom if you are reading this) -- a gnarly 50 mile trail run. Don't ask me why, I simply have no decent explanation. But I confess that I am pretty stoked.

In other news, I have no news so over and out for tonight.